Mga aralin mula sa pudpod Ang Cat…nudging ng mga iba sa Kristo sa pamamagitan ng Austin Cooper

Kailangan ko bang aminin na ginamit ko upang mapoot cats. Hindi ko kailanman maintindihan kung bakit isang tao ay nais ng isang hayop na Itinatago 20 oras ng araw at hisses sa iyo ang iba pang mga 4 oras kapag ito nagpasya ang biyaya mo sa kanyang presensya. I see all the “cute” kitten pictures girls post on Facebook and all I can think is “You need a dog in your life.” Strangely enough though, my perceptions of cats have taken a complete 180 turn in the past several months due to a stray cat named Stubby that visits our house from time to time. Stubby has not only done well for his entire species, but he has highlighted a great truth that too many of us as Christians forget: Genuine small acts of love push people toward Christ no matter how far away they are from His Grace.

Stubby started coming to our doorstep early this winter and I wanted nothing to do with him. My wife and I would sometimes put out some scrap food for Stubby. He would eat it and then go his way. I liked his lack of neediness but one night it got down to 20 degrees outside so I agreed to let him in for about an hour, but no longer. While he was in our house he was playful, well behaved, clean, and actually showed his love toward us with many small gestures. After his hour was up I kicked him outside with some warm towels that he could shelter under. A week later cold weather returned and Stubby was at our door waiting for us when we got home. This time I agreed to let Stubby stay the entire night. At about 3 am I woke up to a shifting of weight at the foot of our bed. Stubby had cuddled up and was purring more than any cat I ever heard before. All of my instincts told me “KICK HIM OFF”, but I decided to let him stay. Time and time again this has happened and now when we come home Stubby is usually waiting for us doing backflips for us to come in. I have bought him play toys, I let him stay whenever he wants, he has met all of my friends, I have bought him Meow Mix, and yes I let him sleep in our bed whenever he wants. I am officially still a dog man, but little experiences over time with Stubby has me rethinking how I view cats because now I can truly say I love Stubby and look forward to seeing him every day. At first I didn’t understand what was happening, but now I see it clearly. Stubby was working a plan. Bit by bit, Stubby was nudging me toward a relationship with him.

This experience teaches a great lesson about how we as Christians need to reach out to the Lost.

There are many people in this world who are not yet ready to accept Christ. They are “Not-Yet Believers.” They are open to a gesture of kindness and love that can nudge them closer to being ready to accept Christ. Recently, I’ve heard pastors use the analogy of golfers on a golf course to represent those who are on a journey toward coming to Christ at various points of readiness to accept Christ. Some golfers are right on the green and ready to putt their ball into the hole (accept Christ), while others are so far away from the hole it wouldn’t work all that well for a putter to move them. For the person that is far away from the hole, a simple act of love can be used to get them closer to the hole where the golfer can use a putter to nudge them into the hole (to accept Christ) so that progress will take place. Progress takes place all along the golf match no matter which club is used. The lesson learned is this – use the appropriate club depending on where the ball lies, not on your affinity for a particular club. Learn to use a number of clubs!

Too many times in evangelism we focus on the end result and we want to rush people there without taking the time to show them who God is through small acts of genuine love. There are many people who are so distant from accepting Christ, that a push in His direction with a practical service may be all that God asks at that moment. I like to think that our small obedient acts of love give the lost a first impression of who God really is, and how much He loves them. If I think about my relationship with Stubby, he did not come in and demand that he sleep on my bed and eat my food right away. I would have promptly kicked him off my property. Gayunman, little genuine acts of love over time gave me a first impression of cats and brought me to the point where I was ready to dive in to whatever Stubby wanted. When we grasp the truth that God uses even our small acts of love to draw the Lost to Himself, it inspires us to live a life that is bursting out with the love and kindness God has shown us. Every small act of our life becomes meaningful simply because a small act of love shown to an Unbeliever could be all God needs to draw them to a better understanding of who He is, which in effect draws them closer to accepting Jesus’ love.

Our church has recently caught fire on giving people within our community a first impression of who God is. As we focus on giving the Lost a little nudge closer to Jesus we like to perform small acts of kindness such as passing out free water on a hot day, passing out free candy, doing free car washes, raking leafs for free, or any free service that aims just to show people that God loves them in a practical way with no strings attached. The people we are serving often say, “I have never felt so loved by a Christian” or “I have never heard of a church doing something like this just to tell me God loves me”. Over time we have seen the fruit of nudging people towards Christ through small acts of love.

If Stubby can use small genuine acts of love to bring me to a place where I admit that I love cats, how much more can God use our small, genuine acts of love overtime to bring an Unbeliever to a place where they accept Him.

Hang in there as the ball moves closer to the hole. My prayer is that the Holy Spirit will inspire you to have patience.

 

Kaharian kabaitan: Paano sa kabaitan ng Diyos Leads Upang Power ng Diyos Para sa paglunas ng Mark Wyatt

Kapag ako stumbled sa lingkod halos magbahagi ng Ebanghelyo 15 taon na ang nakalipas, ang aking buhay ay binago magpakailanman. Bilang bahagi ng isang sekta na masyadong nakatuon sa magbahagi ng Ebanghelyo, Ako ay isang pastor na kinasusuklaman magbahagi ng Ebanghelyo. Ngunit siyempre, walang sinuman ang maaaring malaman. Kaya ko natutunan ang mga diskarte, napunta sa mga kurso pagsasanay, ginawa ang mga tawag sa telepono, knocked on the doors, passed out a trillion tracts. I did all of this was to try to cover up the fact that I hated making people uncomfortable, which seemed to be unavoidably woven into the fabric of every evangelism program I had ever seen.

And then came free sodas at traffic lights. Doughnuts and milk to people having yard sales. Hot chocolate to cold customers in the wee hours of Black Friday.

And as toilets were cleaned, and windshields were washed, and hotdogs and cokes were given away at heavy metal concerts, I found that I didn’t really hate evangelism. I just hated the way I had always done it.

And so, when my wife and I followed God’s call to relocate from Dallas to our hometown of Mobile, Alabama to plant a new church, Community of Kindness by Steve Sjogren became my textbook. There was no doubt that this new work would be founded on Servant Evangelism. As our vision for the city grew, so did the church, and so did our creativity. And as good as it was, there was still something more to come, something that would take everything I knew to a new level.

In March of 2006, I stood next to my friend as the Lord completely, immediately, and irrevocably healed him of Parkinson’s Disease. The very next week, as my friend and mentor Jack Taylor was preaching at our church, he said something that tattooed itself on my spirit: “Let me tell you what has happened– you have been blown into Kingdom come.” And it was true. I realized, in that moment, that I was now an eyewitness to the truth of the what John Wimber had taught with such wisdom and influence in the 1980s: the Kingdom of God is here.

As the people of our new church, Deeper Life Fellowship, and I began to really seek this present rule and reign of God, we began to see Him demonstrate it in wonderful ways. And naturally, this seeking of the Kingdom and this serving of the people began to meld into one cohesive event. We found that now, Servant Evangelism had been endowed with power from on high. It is a wonderful, Spirit-directed, life-filled activity to show the kindness and love of God to people who are walking in darkness and may not even know it. But I believe that is only the beginning.

On December 4, 2010, we held another Gas Buydown. This is where we, in cooperation with a local gas station, buy the price of gasoline down 20 cents per gallon for two hours. During those two hours, we have the opportunity to pump gas, wash windshields, give out bottled water and soft drinks, and pray for dozens and dozens of people. On this particular day, as my wife was asking one of the customers how we could pray for her, the woman said that we could pray for her niece, who was suffering serious side effects from juvenile rheumatoid arthritis. The little girl had gone blind in her left eye. My wife quickly motioned me over when she realized that the niece was right there in the car, and we immediately began to pray “Kingdom Come” prayers for her. And there, in a gas station parking lot, on a Saturday afternoon, that 8-year old girl received her sight in her blind left eye!

I love the power of kindness, and I love the power of the rule and reign of God. And the good news is, they are connected at the hip. Servant Evangelism for the sake of being kind is a wonderful, anointed God-activity. But it is also the railway on which the freight train of God’s power barrels into every darkened corner of our cities, delivering its cargo of hope, healing, and the supremacy of His Kingdom into every heart that will receive it.

5.5 Bagay Upang ba Kapag Tinanggihan Sa isang Outreach sa pamamagitan ng Steve Sjogren

Hindi mahalaga kung paano mahirap subukan mong dumating sa kabuuan bilang isang "safe" na tao upang maabot ang mga out ka sa, ang ilan ay hindi makakatanggap ng iyong alok ng serbisyo. Iyon ay hindi maaaring baguhin ng isang katotohanan. Ngunit huwag mag-alaala. Mayroong ilang mga hakbang na napatunayan na nahanap ko na gawa na rin para sa pagharap sa mga malupit na tao.

1. The Forrest Gump-Andy Griffith Response.
It’s never a good idea to return fire with fire. Sa halip, put on a combination smile and blank response. You might practice this response with others on your team. You might be more of a natural arguer – that’s my natural inclination but it doesn’t work well. I’ve managed to abate other’s anger thrown my way many times and in fact I’ve been able to later return to the same place with the same personnel and find them willing to allow us to serve them!

2. Keep on keeping on.
The one thing we can’t entertain is the possibility of giving up. The end of Paul’s verse above regarding giving up is the quip, “for we shall reap a harvest if we do not give up.” Keep that promise in your heart. There is a harvest before you and your team. Remind your team that we are doing something that blesses the heart of God. When we reach out we are doing the ministry of Jesus – that is amazing!

3. Realize what is happening beneath the surface with those you serve.
Sometimes the most angry, nearly violent responses come from the very people who are being the most profoundly worked on the most by the Spirit of God. Keep that fact before you. If people are lackadaisical, ho hum regarding your outreach attempts you might be register with their souls. Remind your team that they need to proceed by faith, not sight, and serve with enthusiasm regardless of the surface of response.

4. Release the hound of heaven on them.
Francis Thompson wrote a poem with this title about the pursuit of the Holy Spirit – how he pursues people with power and faithfulness. When we serve, according to Paul in Romans 2:4, “the kindness of God leads to repentance.” Something supernatural is released upon their lives. It’s not our job to make sure everyone we reach out to is efficiently followed up on. If you read the Book of Acts it is obvious that many of those exposed to the Gospel were followed up on by the Holy Spirit in sovereign ways that only God could arrange. Sa madaling salita, don’t sweat it! Your extra efforts won’t change things in any case. It is the ministry of the Spirit to see to it that people come into the Kingdom, not yours. Do what you can, then relax, smile and continue to plant, water and harvest as the opportunity presents itself.

5. Tell your story!
Chances are some haven’t had a 100% successful day of outreach. Sometimes an encouraging conversation will un-empower the work of the Enemy that might otherwise scare the daylights out of people. A friendly sharing time will allow them to realize they didn’t fail but that it was probably just that the person they connected with who was having a bad day.

5.5 Eat a taco.
Stop at Taco Bell (or wherever) and connect with others on your team and download regarding your outreach experiences regarding what happened. Why a taco versus a burger at Wendy’s? You can eat like a king at Taco Bell for about $1.95!

Paano Upang mapera iyong mga Espirituwal na pipa ni Ken Glassmeyer

Walang bagay na kung gaano katagal ang gagawin ko outreach, Madalas ako nagulat sa kung gaano kalaki ang epekto sa paghahatid ng iba ay aktwal na sa aming sariling espirituwal na kalusugan. Kapag kami feed sa mahihirap, o gumawa ng ilang maliliit na kilos ng kabaitan, Hindi lamang namin ay nagbibigay sa kanila ng isang maliit na lasa ng kaharian, kami makapag-refresh ang mga espiritwal pati na rin. Ko narinig higit sa isang pare gamitin ang talinghaga na kami ay isang tubo o pipeline para sa Diyos sa biyaya kapag namin sa Kanya dumaloy sa pamamagitan ng sa amin sa iba.

Kung minsan, kapag na biyaya spray sa pamamagitan amin, ito linisin ang aming mga pipe.

Pagkahulog na ito, Nagkaroon na ako ng aking mainit initan ng tubig mabigo sa akin. Mabuhay ako sa isang lugar na may lubos na matapang na tubig, at frugal taong mapag-alinlangan na ako, Palaging ako resisted pagkuha ng tubig softener. Ako din hindi pagdating sa pagkumpuni sa tahanan ng pinaka-kaalaman tao. Little alam ko na aktwal na ikaw ay dapat alisan ng tubig at kapantay ang iyong mainit na tubig at initan ng mga linya ng hindi bababa sa isang beses bawat taon, dahil calcium, dayap, at iba pang mga mineral sa matapang na tubig ay calcify at gunk up ang iyong taps, fixtures pipe, at kahit na ang mainit na tubig initan ng sarili nito. Sa aking kaso nagpunta ako 15 taon nang hindi na kinakailangang ang initan ng serviced. Sa una, Napansin ko puti ng grit sa aerators at nabawasan daloy mula sa gripo. Pagkatapos ng ilang linggo sa ibang pagkakataon sa bawat linya hot water sa bahay pinabagal sa isang halos trickle. Pagkatapos ng ilang libong dolyares at ilang araw na may isang tubero, ang aking mga linya ay napakalinaw, Nagkaroon na ako ng isang bagong mainit initan ng tubig, at isang softener. Nagkaroon na ako upang matulungan ang tubero magtataglay ng mga lumang initan sa labas ng bahay dahil nagkaroon ito sa paglipas ng £ 60 ng sediment na si built up sa paglipas ng mga taon. Ang lahat ng ito ay maaaring naiwasan sa pamamagitan ng simpleng disiplina ng Flushing aking Pagtutubero sa pana-panahon.

Hindi maaaring ang parehong bagay ay sinabi para sa paggawa ng outreach isang regular na ugali sa aming mga buhay?

Siguro ito napupunta pabalik sa ideya ng isang tao na walang mga sapatos na pang-biglang pagiging napaka-masaya sa kanyang buhay kapag siya ay nakakatugon sa isang tao na walang paa. Kapag naghatid kami ng mga tao na mas impoverished sa amin, kung ito man ay emosyonal, espirituwal, o pananalapi kahirapan, ito ay tumutulong sa ilagay ang aming mga buhay sa pananaw. Flushes nito ang aming mga espirituwal na pipe at nakakakuha ng gunk out.

Nagkaroon na ako ng isang katulad na karanasan sa aking personal na ministeryo karapatan sa paligid ng parehong oras nagpunta ang mainit initan ng tubig. Kahit na ang karamihan ng tao ay nagpapalagay gagawin ko outreach halos mas madalas hangga't ko huminga, ito ay hindi talaga ay likas na sa akin. Kung katotohanan ay sinabi sa, Hindi ako isang napaka-gandang tao. Ako aktwal na uri ng haltak. Sa katunayan, na patunay na epektibo evangelism lingkod ay ganap na nakasalalay sa kabutihan ng Diyos–hindi aking politeness. Paghahatid ng iba ay hindi dumating nang natural sa akin. Maaaring tumingin na paraan kung ikaw ay siko sa siko sa akin ang paggawa ng ministri, ngunit ikaw ay hindi nakakakita sa akin sa aking mga natural na elemento. Nakikita mo ay ang kapangyarihan ng kagandahang-loob ng Diyos ibahin ang anyo sa akin sa lugar dahil ito ay dumadaloy sa pamamagitan ko sa mga ako ay na naghahain.

Dahil dito, minsan nakukuha ko sa isang Funk. Kung minsan, Ako slack-off na may pagsasaalang-alang sa paglilingkod. Linggo at buwan ay maaaring slide sa pamamagitan ng, at pagkatapos ay maaari kong spiral sa isang talagang funky espirituwal na lugar. Ako ay nasa ganoong lugar na ito taglagas. Nagkaroon na ako ng ilang mga seryosong set backs sa aking personal na buhay, ang ilang mga pagkamatay at mga sakit sa pamilya, at isang bilang ng mga problema sa pananalapi. Habang hindi ako ay alog ang aking kamao sa Diyos, kami ay hindi eksakto sa pinakamahusay na mga terminong ginamit sa Pagsasalita. Ako ay tiyak na ay hindi sa anumang kalooban upang maghatid ng mga ibang tao, higit na mas mababa maging cordial patungo sa kanila.

Ako ay tunay na malaki ang fan ng Harry Chapin, at kung mangyari sa iyo na magkaroon ng kanyang pinakamatinding Hits CD paligid, ilagay ito sa. Mayroong isang maliit na rant pupunta siya sa pagitan ng dalawa sa kanyang mga kanta kung saan siya uusap tungkol sa mga ludicrousness ng mga simbahan at paaralan nakakakuha nasasabik tungkol sa pagpapadede sa mahihirap sa paligid ng Thanksgiving: "Bang kumain sila mahusay para sa isa o dalawang araw off ng iyong mga pagkain biyahe, ngunit kung ano ang mga ito ng pagpunta sa kumain sa natitirang bahagi ng taon?"

Nangyari ko na pakikinig sa ito sa kotse at ito ay naganap sa akin, na hindi lamang gawin ang mga impoverished pumunta gutom sa natitirang bahagi ng taon, ang ilan sa amin makakuha ng espiritwal tamad sa natitirang bahagi ng taon. Bago ko narinig ang CD, Ako ay hindi lamang nilaktawan ng ilang nakaplanong outreaches simbahan, Kahit na ako ay pinabagal down na ang aking personal lingkod evangelism. Ako ay hindi "sa paggawa ng aking rounds" bilang madalas na nagtuturo Steve Sjogren: sundin lamang ang inyong araw-araw na gawain, ngunit maging masigasig at handa na upang maghatid ng mga tao mo na matugunan ang bilang patakbuhin mo ang araw-araw na errands at pumunta tungkol sa iyong normal na negosyo.

Aking pipe ay barado.

Ako ay talagang kahit na naisip tungkol sa paglaktaw taunang Turkeyfest aking iglesya ni, isang kaganapan nakatulong ba akong magsimula at pinuhin sa paglipas ng dalawampu't-limang taon na nakalipas.

Ako ay nasa isang Funk, at habang Alam ko at madalas na nagturo sa iba na ang pinakamahusay na paraan upang makakuha ng out ng isang Funk ay upang maghatid ng iba. Hindi ko nais na. Conjured ako ng isang daang dahilan hindi na sumali sa Turkeyfest. Espirituwal inertia ay nakatakda sa.

Ito ay isang napaka-magaspang na taglagas. Aking lola ay namatay lamang tulad ng ako ay sa wakas talagang pagkuha ng malaman ang kanyang at regular na bumibisita sa kanya. Sadly, Ako pa rin ng kaunti sigurado lamang kung saan siya landed sa Engle scale bago namamatay. Nadama ko espiritwal impotent. Narito ako ay, isang uri ng outreach guru, at maaaring hindi ko kahit saksihan epektibo sa aking halos hindi na-save pamilya. Ang natitira sa aking pamilya ay medyo dang malapit sa ilalim ng parehong Engel scale. Ang mga ito ay isang kaswal na kamalayan na mayroong isang Diyos, ngunit ang mga ito ay hindi Kanya. Ito halos nagtatapos doon patungkol sa pananampalataya sa karamihan ng mga miyembro ng aking pamilya.

Pagkatapos aking ina ay inaatake sa pamamagitan ng ikatlong uri ng kanser siya ay nakatagpo sa dalawang dekada: kanser sa suso, kanser sa balat, at ngayon sa wakas ay malalang yugto ng apat na bato cell carcinoma. Siya ay paraan pababa sa Florida at, nakatira sa Ohio, Hindi ko talaga makita ang kanyang hangga't Gusto kong. Siya ay may mas mababa sa anim na buwan na natitira. Mayroon pa ng kaunti. . .Ako sterile, pa nagbabago na sa isang pagkahilig para sa pagiging isang guro at ako ay medyo magandang sa ito at kahit na nanalo ng ilang mga parangal, ngunit pagkatapos ay ako ay nagkaroon ng isang atake sa puso hatiin ang isang away sa paaralan at ako ay diagnosed na may malubhang CHF at napipilitang magretiro ng maaga.

Ginugol ko isang mahusay na dami ng oras sa loob at labas ng ospital at magkaroon ng ilang mga piraso ng aking anatomya hiwa, diced, at inalis. Sinubukan kong upang makakuha ng malusog, ngunit may isang puso na gumagana sa mas mababa sa 30% kahusayan, ang aking mga araw sa silid-aralan ay higit sa.

Threw ko ang aking sarili sa paglilingkod pagiging isang outreach maniac at kahit na ang naging editor ng isang pambansang magazine na nakatuon sa mga tao pagtuturo sa buong mundo kung paano gawin ang dalawang bagay:

  1. Pansinin ang mga pangangailangan ng mga tao
  2. Tulungan ang mga ito mapansin Diyos na overjoyed upang matugunan ang mga pangangailangan para sa mga ito

Nakalulungkot na uka tumagal lamang ng ilang mga taon. Dahil sa mga medikal na pensiyon stipulations, Nagkaroon na ako upang magbitiw. Sa katunayan Nagkaroon na ako upang pigilan ang lahat ng aking mga pagsusumikap na inorganisa ng ministri para sa Ako ay hindi na maaaring mamuno o atasan ang iba pormal-kahit na bilang isang volunteer. Mayroon akong ngayon upang magsumite ng isang ulat sa lupon ng estado pagpapakita ng aking mga aktibidad na nagpapatunay na hindi ako paggawa ng anumang paraan ng nangungunang iba; Hindi ko ma-maturuan ang isang pag-aaral ng Bibliya o humahantong sa isang maliit na pangkat. Ang lahat ng ito para sa kasiyahan ng pagkolekta ng 21.25% ng suweldo-bago ang mga buwis sa aking huling taon.

Pagkatapos nakita akong out Mayroon akong problema sa utak kimika na ang mga doktor hindi pa rin ilagay ang kanilang mga daliri sa. Ako ay naging isang pagsubok na paksa para sa mga kompanya ng pharmaceutical, ako lamang po ay nagbabayad ang mga ito, sa halip na ang mga ito nagbabayad ako bilang subukan sila gamot pagkatapos ng gamot upang maging matatag ang aking utak kimika. Masyadong posibleng ito ay hindi kailanman pagpunta sa makukumpuni at maaaring maging isang resulta ng lahat ng iba pang mga gamot tumagal ko para sa aking Congestive Heart Pagkabigo; Alta-presyon at ang katotohanan na ako ay wala nang bahagi ng aking bituka tract at tiyan.

Ang ilang mga umaga gisingin ko up at magtaka kung bakit Job ay pagiging tulad ng isang sigaw-sanggol.

Sa madaling salita, Gustung-gusto ko pa rin ang Diyos dahil siya ay aking Ama, ngunit kamakailan lamang hindi ko pa sa mood na makipag-usap sa kanya Sobra at pagiging tao sa paligid na mas “cheery” kaysa sa akin ginagawang akin kahit edgier kaysa sa ilan sa inyo na na nakita sa akin, at kung inisip ninyo sa akin ang bastos at brusque bago, Ako ay down na karapatan espiritwal cantankerous sa sandaling ito. . .medyo tulad ng isang crotchety Kristiyano Dennis Miller na palagay ni siya ay funnier at mas matalino kaysa siya ay tunay na, at sinasabi ang lahat ng bagay ay pinag-iisipan siya nang malakas. Kaya nagsimula kong lumayo sa pagtitipon kaya hindi ako nakakalason sa iba.

Aking espirituwal pipe ay hindi lamang barado-sila ay naka-back up.

Pa Rin, Ako ay halos sa naturang Funk na malapit ko dang kinuha ng pass sa handing out turkeys sa taong ito, nagdudulot sa akin na makaligtaan ang aking unang Turkeyfest. . .na rin dahil bago talaga namin ay hindi magkaroon ng isang pangalan para dito. Bumalik kapag nagsimula namin ito noong kahulihan ng 1980 ni lamang namin ang lahat ng pitched sa labas ng ating sariling bulsa, load up ng ilang pickup Truck na may nakapirming mga turkeys, pagsisiksik, naka-kahong mga kalakal, kalabasa pie at lamang ang paggawa ng pinakamahusay na sa grupo ng mga mapagmahal amateurs maaaring gawin upang ipasa ang awa at kabaitan mula sa likod ng isang tailgate.

Dalawampu't limang taon mamaya at tayo ay nagpapakain sa loob ng isang libong mga pamilya sa bawat Thanksgiving-may isang talagang maganda ang spread. Ako ay pagpunta sa piyansa dito.

Pagkatapos ay dalawang bagay nagbago ang isip.

1) Narinig ko ang bulung-bulungan na maaaring muling bisitahin namin ang “modelo lumang-paaralan” at mayroon pa ng kaunti kalayaan sa freelance / manalangin at mabatak ang ilang mga kalamnan atrophied prophetic at makahanap ng random na mga pamilya upang maglingkod bilang pinangunahan ang Panginoon sa halip na paggamit ng mga lead (may triplicate papeles) mula sa isang ahensiya mga serbisyong panlipunan sa paggawa sa amin ang kaunti pa kaysa sa mga lalaki sa paghahatid ng pizza. Isang beses noong nakaraang taon ako ay yelled sa pamamagitan ng tao Nagbigay ako ng pabo hapunan sa, na binili ko ang aking bulsa, because I was ten minutes late arriving.

2) My youngest nephew, Adam, would be joining us for his first Turkeyfest. This precocious young man is the life of any party: a kid that is two parts scoundrel and three parts saint. You never know what is going to come out of his mouth, but more times than not it would be profound and sometimes even holy.

We reduced down, not going with a larger group this year; just our little extended family of me, my wife, and some of my inlaws. They are Catholic, but let me tell you, that particular faith has forgotten more about service and kindness than any cutting edge parachurch you can name. We bought two turkey dinners to give away. The organizers at my church provided heavy-duty laundry baskets (Ito ay isang kahanga-hangang ideya ng paraan-hold ito ng isang napakahusay na pagkain at full-sized na pabo na walang breaking, at maaaring magamit upang gawin laundry mamaya!) at nagpunta lang namin sa tindahan at puno ito ng Thanksgiving bounty kabilang ang isang mahusay na laki ng ibon.

Ang pagsamba noon ay kahanga-hangang, ngunit nagkaroon kong chuckle kapag leaned kaunti Adan sa balikat kanyang ina at sinabi: “Uhhmm, ina, Sa tingin ko nagpunta kami sa maling dahilan lugar na ito bang ay hindi walang Katoliko simbahan.”

Ito ay pagpunta sa maging isang magandang araw.

Ay nagdulot namin sa pamamagitan ng Lincoln Heights sa aming mga turkeys. Landscape ay bang nagbago mula noong araw ng puting nagpapatakbo ng bus at pagkain na ginamit ko upang ayusin ito sa impoverished kapitbahayan kapag ako ay sa mga kawani sa paglipas ng dalawampung taon na ang nakalipas. Na-gentrified Ang buong lugar, ngunit kung titingnan mo malapit, you can still see the hidden poverty sprinkled around all the new condominiums city planners put in when the bulldozed the eight block grid housing project. I almost go lost.

As we were driving down Chamberlain Ave. little Adam was inspired: “Uncle Kenny, Instead of driving around all day and looking at houses, why don’t we just stop and ask that lady if she knows anybody that is hungry–she looks like she knows where we should go with the food.”

I look over and there is a single mom trying to load her car with a ton of laundry in plastic bags as she also herded two young kids. I hop out of the van and help her load her car introduce myself and ask her if she “knows of any families in the neighborhood going through a bad time that could maybe use an thanksgiving dinner with all the trimmings?”

She stared and me blankly for a moment and started crying and pointed to the door of the house. “I don’t live here–that’s my dad’s place,” is all she said, but kept crying.

I motioned to the van and we all carried the pies and stuffing and potatoes and turkey etc inside to meet Marcus and his grandson Javonian.

Marcus explained that his wife had just recently passed and he was trying to make things okay, but it was real rough on the family. To make matters worse, the heater was out, his car was broke, and he was about to lose his job. On top of all that, his wife had always put out a large spread for the family at Thanksgiving, but not only did he not have a clue how to cook, he didn’t have the money to afford such a spread

I started to show him that we had even gave him some basic cooking directions and showed him the cooking tips guide in the basket, but he stopped me. He pointed out the window at his daughter, “She won’t come in here right now ’cause she’s mad at me and the rest of the world. She can cook just like her ma could though, so we are good there. Don’t worry. She’ll come around. She just knows we’re about to do church in this living room, and that is probably more than she could bear right now.”

Adam frowned up at the man, “Why is she mad?”

“Well. . .” tears welled up in his eyes, but he laughed, “we were just arguing this morning about what to do about Thanksgiving this year, and I told her I would pray and God would provide–then you all showed up a few minutes later. She ain’t really mad-mad, she just knows it is time to get right with God again, you know? You folks showing up is just God messing around with her–and some folks don’t think God has a great sense of humor,” Marcus smiled down at Adam as he wiped a tear from his face. “Little man, you and your kin are an answer to prayers this morning,” and with that Marcus grabbed all our hands and we did church in his living room.

We prayed for Marcus and his grandson while his daughter lingered and watched with curiosity from the porch. Then Adam tugged on my jeans: “Aren’t you going to pray for his heater?”

I picked up the broken thermostat in my hand and Adam covered it with his and we prayed that God would “send a friend over that could help him hook it back up right.” The phone rang just as we were leaving. It was a friend of Marcus calling to see what would be a good time to come over and rewire the thermostat that had been lying on the floor.

My pipes are clean now.

Paghahatid ng Sama-sama = lumalagong Sama-sama sa pamamagitan ng Austin Cooper

“Enjoyed spending my morning with the kids and my church family doing a Winter Survival kit outreach!! It’s an awesome experience and I am so thankful to be able to have the opportunity to teach my kids how to show Gods love in simple, practical ways.”

“I am blown away by God’s mercy, just to be a part of His work…it’s amazing!!! Today we got the opportunity to drive a little boy and his sister, whom we met on an outreach, to church and he said are you taking us to Jesus’ house??? He was SO excited! What a blessing to be able to be used by God to draw people into Himself…we are SO unworthy!!! It BLOWS my mind.”

These quotes are real Facebook posts from two different people in our church that have occurred in the past month. As a culture of Servant Evangelism is enveloping our church there seems to be a two part blessing that has occurred from our church developing an outward focus: a blessing for us as a church and a blessing for the people we are reaching by showing them God’s love in simple and practical ways. Nothing highlights these two blessings better than the two Facebook posts above.

In August of 2010 our church started participating in Servant Evangelism. As a church we did a kindness outreach on a Saturday from 10am-noon once a month in which we served people in very simple and practical ways such as $1 car washes (wash a car and give away the dollar), leaf raking, toilet cleaning, soda and water giveaways, washing windows, atbp. When we were asked by the people we were serving why we were doing this we would just respond, “We wanted to show you that Jesus loves and cares for you in a practical way.” Furthermore, we passed out a card with a big smiley face on the front that says: “We hope this small gift brightens your day, there are no strings attached. We just want to let you know God loves you.” We had so much fun we decided in January of 2011 to start doing the kindness outreaches twice a month. Finally in June of 2011 we decided to completely dive in and start doing a kindness outreach every single week whether we have 1 person show up or 20 (trust me there has been plenty of weeks where we have had only 1 person show up to an outreach, but God still uses it) and we have seen the outpour of blessings that God has put upon our church, both from the inside and the out.

From the very beginning of our outreach efforts it became apparent that God was using this outward focus to bless and bring our church together. Whenever we step out and look to further God’s kingdom there is a great deal of joy involved. I have never felt or seen strangers within a church grow to become a loving family quicker than when we are serving others in fun and practical ways. When we set out on our outreaches whether it be simply giving away soda or putting on a block party there is an overwhelming sense that God’s Spirit is going before us and just as in Acts 13:52 which says, ““And the disciples were filled with joy and with the Holy Spirit” there is a great deal of fun, bonding, and joy involved. Lahat kami narinig ang parirala: "Ang isang pamilya na sama-sama prays nananatiling magkasama" na rin ang gusto kong sabihin "A simbahan na naghahain ng sama-sama ay lumalaki." Paglago Nangangahulugan ito na tumatagal ng lugar sa parehong pisikal at espiritwal. The two Facebook posts at the top of the page illuminate this truth greatly. Diyos blesses sa amin ang pinakadakilang paraan posible kapag kami pagpalain iba.

Of course our ultimate goal in reaching out to others in our community is to allow God to use us to bring those who he chooses to a place where he can draw them to Himself. When we pass out sodas, or chap stick, or whatever it may be we always pray that God’s spirit will use such a simple, material thing to change someone’s heart towards him. I like to think that through Servant Evangelism and a simple offer of a 10 second prayer after we serve someone, we are giving people a new and redefined first impression of who Jesus is. This impression destroys any other impression that they may have had in the past through bad experiences with other Christians. We constantly get comments from people who say “I have never heard of a church that would do something like this” or “I have never felt so blessed and loved by a simple act of kindness”.

After consistently serving every Saturday for just an hour and a half for 6 months we have started seeing many of the people we have reached out to come to our church on Sundays where they get to hear in even more detail about who Jesus is and what he has done for them.

At a recent free block party outreach we put on I met a student, introduced him to Christ then baptized him. This was one of the neatest moments of my life. We have multiple people in our church picking up those who we have met during kindness outreaches and bringing them to church (i.e. second Facebook post at the top). We have people that have never been to church before coming in our doors and actually enjoying it. The truth is God chooses to bless those who are warriors for his kingdom. Strangely enough our warriors clean toilets, rake leaves, mow yards, and pass out soda, however sometimes there is nothing more fulfilling to us, and useful to God, than to reach out to the Lost providing them with a spotless toilet, a clean looking yard, and a quenched thirst.

Mag-Uri Sa Mahina sa pamamagitan ng Robert Pittman

"Ang pagiging mabait sa mga mahihirap ay tulad ng pagpapautang sa Panginoon; siya ay gantimpalaan ka para sa kung ano ang nagawa mo na. " (Kawikaan 19:17)

 

Once a month we go out as a church and we call it “Love Louisville.” We also do an annual event that is city-wide with the same name (magpatala nang umalis: www.lovelouisville.org for more info).

As a follow up to Christmas, we recently did what we called: "Winter Warm Outreach.” We collected new or gently used coats, hats, gloves and scarfs for men, women and children. We worked with Starbucks and they donated coffee and hot chocolate along with freshly baked muffins.

We often do other types of outreaches like bottled water giveaways, business blast where we take goodie bags to area workers, or gas buy-downs where we give out $2 bills at area gas stations and wash people’s wind shields for free. We still do those, but recently God has given me a heart to reach out more to the poor, the abused, the lonely, the neglected. So every month we have been very deliberate about doing outreaches that touch those people. So off we go to “Winter Warm.”

We drove to one of the poorest areas in Louisville and set up our giveaway in the area park adjacent to the projects. While people set up, a couple of guys and I started knocking on doors to invite people. “We’ve got FREE coats, hats, gloves for you and your kids along with hot chocolate” and people came in below freezing temperatures because of love. Up to 100 people loved, served, clothed, conversations with, thanks given, prayers prayed.

But there was one person I’ll never forget. Her name was Sellina. I was walking back from knocking on doors when I met her. She was in her car getting ready to take off when I walked up to the window and told her about the giveaway in the park. She said, “I thought about coming over, but I didn’t want to take away from other people who needed it more than me.” And then to my surprise she pulled out a $5 bill and insisted I take it to put in our offering for outreach. I normally don’t take any kind of donations because we don’t want people to think there are any strings attached to our outreach. But she was insistent and started to tear up as she said, “Please, please take this and put it toward your outreach.”

She placed the $5 bill in my hand and as she did I joined hands with her and asked if I could pray with her. After I prayed, I looked up and there were tears streaming down her face and she could barely get the words out: “You don’t know how much I needed that…I’ve just been evicted.”

$5 dollars to her was like $50 to someone else, o $500, o $5000. It reminds me of the story Jesus told about the poor widow who gave money to the offering: "All the others gave what they do not need, but this poor widow gave out of her need” (Mark 12:44).

I never saw Sallina again, but I’ve never forgotten her and neither has God: "He puts poor people on their feet again; He rekindles burned-out lives with fresh hope, restoring dignity and respect to their lives” (1 Samuel 2:8). Guess what? He uses you and me to do it.

All God asks is this: "to remember to help the poor—something I really wanted to do” (Galacia 2:10). Because on one of the coldest days of the year, a woman who was evicted touched my life. And I believe God used me to touch hers.

Ang mas malalim na Uri ng Pag-ibig sa pamamagitan ng Steve Sjogren

“Love one another deeply for love covers a multitude of sins.” 1 Pet. 4:8

Tulad ng Araw ng mga Puso ay nalalapit nagbibigay-daan sa kumuha ng isang silip sa kapangyarihan ng pag-ibig na gumagalaw sa pamamagitan ng sa amin - parehong kapag naabot out kami at tumuon sa namin sa aming kapatid na lalaki at babae sa Iglesia.

Sometimes outreach people can become so fixated on reaching out we can poo poo the need for the obvious – to show love to the obvious, the already gathered.

Let’s pull that verse apart:

"Love one another deeply"

Love those sa loob the church first.

The call here is not just to merely love but to love “deeply.” It takes far more grace and power to love insiders than outsiders. Here’s my thought – God will develop our ability to love others through the difficult people he places in our lives in the Church we are unable to avoid. As that capacity to love deepens, we will be all the more effective at loving outsiders.

“…love covers"

As we love, something redemptive is released.

“Love covers…sins.” That’s an amazing promise! There aren’t many promises that bold in the Bible. When we fail we can choose empowered attitudes and actions that God will anoint to cover our failures. Kagulat-gulat!

“…love coversa multitude of sins"

God’s power is released, our sins and failures are covered, when we love other Believers.

The key is that are willing to aim our love toward others in the Body of Christ. It is easy to shy away from taking advantage of the promise of 1 Pet. 4:8. Believers are far more difficult to love than those outside the Church! They are people in process, thus they are more irritating, sometimes stuck in repeating, irritating patterns and when they change it seems like a very slowww process. Let’s face it, those on the outside, the ones we have no relationship with, are ones we can extend grace to far more readily.

Christian love is empowered by the Holy Spirit.

This kind of love is not brought by human effort. As people who move in the world of kindness outreach we all know from experience that it’s not an act of deciding with our wills that we will love that makes outreach love happen. We need God to give us the desire and ability to move in the power of his love. It works the same way when we reach out to those inside the Church.

…Keep in mind:

Don’t wait until you get your love skills perfected on the inside of the Church before you reach out and serve.

I’ve heard confusion on this point from those in leadership who are concerned about the point of readiness for outreach. I appreciate the concern, but the truth is we will never perfect our love this side of heaven (1 Cor. 13). We will in in a continual process the rest of our earthly lives. We will always be moving toward greater effectiveness in our love. Our role now is to be available to do the bidding of God. He will use us as we are willing to be sent. Ready – FIRE! – Aim. That’s our guiding motto!

 

“What we do in life…echoes in Eternity”

(The Gladiator)

Planuhin Ngayon Para sa Outreaches Araw ng mga Puso kabaitan! ni Janie Sjogren

"Ang ibig mong makuha ang iyong mga Puso ngayon?" Ito ay madali upang ilagay ang isang outreach Araw ng mga Puso magkasama sa isang maikling panahon. Ang mga tao ay talagang buksan ang oras na ito ng taon, at lahat ng tao nagmamahal nagsisimula pa ng kaunti pag-ibig na ipinakita sa kanila!

Rosas ay isang mahusay na ideya, balot na may hininga sanggol at ang ilan sa Tagaytay papel mula sa iyong lokal sa Tagaytay. Mag-utos ng mga bahagi at ang iyong koponan wrap up ang lahat ng bagay. I-wrap up ang bawat pulang rosas nang isa-isa. I-wrap sa paghinga sanggol, pulang Tagaytay papel at malinaw na plastic sheet, pagkatapos ay itali ang isang laso sa isang outreach card dito. Rosas ay mahusay upang bigyan out sa mga sulok ng kalye, at ang mga tao ay magulat, libre ito. Ang ilang mga simbahan gumamit ng simbolong "$ 1 Rosas" at pagkatapos ay bigyan ang mga rosas at ang dollar sa mga taong! Red carnation rin gumagana nang maayos para sa proyektong ito.

Kending tsokolate ay isang mahusay na regalo ng pag-ibig oras na ito ng taon. Ilagay ang Hershey kisses o iba pang nakabalot Candies sa maliit na malinaw na bag nakatali may laso at isang card na nagpapahayag na "Ito ay isang maliit na paraan upang ipaalam sa iyo nagmamahal sa iyo Diyos, walang string ng nakalakip!" Mga Regalo ng Candies sa mga manggagawa sa mga tindahan ay madalas na rin natanggap, pati na rin ang pagpapakita ng pagmamahal sa pag-aalaga at pag-aalaga ng mga bahay. Bumili 3 "X 5" zip-pagsasara ng bag online.

Itakda ang petsa at oras! Kunin ang iyong koponan magkasama, planuhin kung ano ang makikita mo ibigay at itakda ang petsa para sa iyong outreach Araw ng mga Puso. Tiyakin na mayroon kang lahat ng mga item upang mag-ipon bago ang outreach.

Kung pack mo ang mga ito, ang iyong mga tao ay magbibigay sa kanila ang layo! Ang isa pang mahusay na paraan upang makakuha ng matamis sa mga taong ay upang ipadala ang iyong mga dadalo Linggo ang pinto sa 5 o 10 hanay ng mga Candies na may nakalakip na card handa upang bigyan ang layo.

Kailangang malaman ang mga ito ay mahal sa mga tao, at ito ay isang madaling paraan upang gawin ito!

Para sa pagkonekta card at zip-pagsasara bag, magpatala nang umalis KindnessResources.com.

3 Things To Address Before Starting A New Church by Doug Murren

Starting churches is sometimes gone into with insufficient preparation. I know I have made several mistakes that were costly in starting churches by not having an adequate preparation period. I believe failure can garner greater insights more than success. I want to talk about three major areas of concern that need to be addressed before getting started on any church venture.

Pre-Mortem Assessment

Post-mortem assessment is very common. We usually think of reviewing our success or failure after the event or venture has wound down. I like to do what I call pre-mortem assessment. It works just like post-mortem with the exception that it precedes the start date.

I now do pre-mortems on my messages. I also like to preview and consider upcoming events. It can be fun. Basically it means drawing your team together to ask how this thing fail. It means looking at what will bring us down. Obviously once you have done this exercise you will find ways to improve even before you start and likely avoid painful post-mortems.

Here are some questions that might help your pre-mortem:

  • What will stop people from returning?
  • What could go wrong with our message presentation?
  • What will make it difficult for people to hear about us and show up?
  • How could we waste our money?
  • What parts of our presentation are week or substandard?
  • What could make our worship terrible?

etc…

Recruiting Leaders

Choosing your first leaders properly is a vital effort. Sometimes we recognize people just because we need some help. It is true that you will likely within the first three years see a complete turn over of your initial leaders. But nonetheless your chances of succeeding can be greatly increased by calling the right partners.

This is an area where I have been weak. I have often not taken the time to recruit and deploy the right people. I have invested money in the ill prepared and under qualified leader and have not only wasted resources but cost myself a great deal of pain.

Where do you find leaders? Almost always the best leaders are going to come via referrals. It is true you may need to recruit leaders from places they are already being productive. I have come to believe that you shouldn’t start if you can’t convince some friends to join you in the venture.

The following are six traits of leaders you will need to be successful:

  • They are willing to invest money.
  • They are influencers and bring other people into the journey with you.
  • Are willing to put in time on the extras.
  • Do they evangelize?
  • Are they optimists?
  • Are they there when its time to pray?

Friends of the Start

I have heard for years planters complain about little or no support from their denominations or sending church. It sounds to me like the people who join your church and want you to hand them some friends. You have to take responsibility for building your own support network.

I think finding a coach and being willing to pay them is a great step. Yes they may be a paid friend but they are still a friend. You may have to go outside your particular organization to find connections.

It is well worth the effort to make some appointments with church leaders that have been successful and ask to share your dream. Don’t ask for money. If they are impressed with you and your plan they will offer on their own. What you need are friends. Often these friends will connect you with resources you need.

I think a network of ten key mentors and friends is essential. Be a listener and learner. Offer to take them to lunch or meet whatever fits their schedule best. Be certain to ask for future meetings after your first meeting. I have had many church planters ask me to mentor them or hire me as a coach. I am always flattered. Often I will work to help them find resources.

Come prepared when you seek to collect friends. Have a list of four or five questions you would like to ask them. They can be anywhere in the country, they don’t have to be in your backyard.. But don’t be vague. Describe your concerns. Ask them to pray for and with you. Send them a note of appreciation after your meeting.

Some of my best friends in the ministry were made this way. I often asked them to speak at my fledgling churches and I was amazed how many were takers. And when you have them speak prepare an honorarium no matter how poor you are. They may give it back but it shows you value their input.

These are the areas that should get a great deal of your attention. This is why I think a church plant or new plan for a church should be preceded by six months of hard preparation time. Happy preparing!

Surprise People with God’s Power by Doug Addison

People are longing to be touched by God’s love, power and acceptance. As Christians, we carry inside us an amazing arsenal of spiritual gifts that can help those in need in the hurting world around us. As an outreach leader and trainer for a number of years, I have come to realize that to become more effective we no longer have to go on an outreach because our life is an outreach!

I never grow tired of watching people’s faces light up when we do something that practically demonstrates God’s love. I call these divine moments or power encounters. I have had many power encounters and my most recent was at a comedy club. My wife and I struck up a conversation with a New Age hypnotherapist and she shared a reoccurring childhood dream, which took place outside a church. I gave her the interpretation, which was that she had an amazing spiritual destiny yet to be fulfilled. She was about to find out more about the special assignment or calling God has had on her life since she was a child. She went into tears and said she felt warmth, love and goose bumps all at the same time.

When I talk about power encounters as a means of reaching people with God’s love, many different ideas may run through your head. I realize that the story I just shared may sound a bit extreme and it came after years of experience. Let me share with you some secrets on how I got started and give you some simple tips on how to have power encounters with people in your community.

The power of presence
Power encounters occur when we bring God’s presence to a person who does not believe in God or is trapped in darkness. There is power just by bringing the presence of God that is inside us into contact with those whom God is drawing to Himself. I call this the ‘Gift of Showing Up’!

God’s presence in us is like a light that shines and distinguishes us from those who do not have this light. We are told to “live as children of light” (Ephesians 5:8). When we intentionally allow the presence of God’s love to be released through us to touch others, people are drawn to us and experience a peace that they have not experienced elsewhere. People can just sit next to us and walk away changed, without knowing what happened to them.

The power of process
Oftentimes, we miss the fact that people tend to come to Jesus through a process of circumstances and events. We need to allow people time to experience God and not be too quick to try to get them to pray the prayer of salvation prematurely. Just like in nature, there is a growth process for new life to emerge. We would never force a rose bud open or plant a seed expecting it to mature instantly. In the same way, people are often relieved to find a Christian who is not “evangelistically trigger-happy.”

Most people want to know God is real and have questions and doubts that need to be worked out over time. Combining the power of God’s presence with the power of process, we can befriend people and hang out with them over time. It feels more natural and relational while being very effective in reaching people today.

The power of love
We all can demonstrate the power of love. The Bible makes it clear that our enemies are in the spiritual realm and they are not the people we are trying to reach (Ephesians 6:12). We show love in the natural, while our enemies are in the spirit realm. When we take God’s light into the world, it is best not to judge people that you may not agree with. Focus on loving anyone you may disagree with because love powerfully attracts people to Him. Jesus does say to love your neighbor.

The power of encouragement
There is profound power in simply speaking kindly to people, building them up. When Jesus encountered the Samaritan woman at the well, he gently pointed out that she had relational issues. But he encouraged her, going on to call her honest (John 4:18). People are often beaten down and discouraged by their circumstances. It is amazing what a kind word can do to build them up. It is the kindness of God that leads people to repent and receive Him (Romans 2:4).

The power of surprise
As we do practical things to demonstrate God’s love, we open people’s eyes to God’s love for them. This is often a surprise to them and gives that “tilt of the head” in astonishment. Another surprise is when people discover we are Christians and we are also nice. Sad to say, many people have had bad experiences with unloving Christians. It is so fun to show people the opposite spirit by practical, surprising acts of love and reveal that God is real and really loves them.

Making it practical
Power encounters are not as difficult as you might think. Here are some easy, practical steps to see this in action. Ask God to show you someone who is need of His touch. If you know them, consider going to coffee or lunch and just listen. Then find a way to practically meet a need in their life.

If you see someone in public that God highlights and you don’t know them, be courageous and tell them that you just read something about the power of encouragement and you were wondering if you could practice with them. Proceed to give them a short uplifting word of encouragement. You don’t have to pray long prayers or get them on their knees repenting to be effective in sharing God’s love. You’ll be surprised!